In life we are surrounded with so many relationships - daughter/son,
husband/wife, mom/dad, best friend/friend, lover/boyfriend etc. etc., we all
hold more than one label from these to name our relationships and to give it a tag.
But is it always necessary to give names to every relation
we hold in our life? Apart from mom/dad, sisters/brothers we hold many
relationships in this world which really do not need any particular name to
certify it and prove how true & pure the relation is…
Foundation of any relationship is based on trust, thoughtfulness and honesty, which actually leads the relationship to last for a long time. Staying
with a person for long time, usually make us to share our happiness as well as despondency
with that person because of the bonding shared by them. Therefore we need
affection and understanding to preserve any relationship not a tag.
But most of us try to name that particular relationship, even
before making its base strong. Maximum time what I find is that after meeting a person if anyone likes him or
her and spent good times together, go for movies, weekend out etc. from the
next day they will address themselves as BFF… or if liking takes place between a boy and girl they will
call it as love and will address themselves as lovers…...
And maybe that’s the reason why ending up of relationship
has increased now a day…..Breaking of any relation is as easy as making a new
relationship for us. It’s only because we are more busy in tagging our
relationships than making its base strong. And it’s hard to carry on with a
fragile relationship only with a name.
I know it sound silly for many of you, but don’t you guys
feel the same??? If the bond between two is strong and the relationship is full
of trust n mutual understanding then it do not seek for any name….the identity
of such relationship will be only by its strong base and long last.. isn't it?
